“I’d lick the grief right off your lips.”
Fans rejoiced at the tantalizing thought of new music from Billie Eilish after she captioned a passport-style Polaroid to her Instagram in January with those emotionally charged words. But the lyrics actually come from a hotly tipped singer/songwriter from the U.K. Eilish was referencing Arlo Parks’ “Black Dog,” a candid look at the realities of trying to help a friend living with depression. A year apart in age, Eilish and Parks represent a new generation of songwriters intent on tackling Gen Z’s problems head-on.
It’s not just Eilish who’s singing the praises of Parks—the vanguard of the creative arts is rooting for the young singer. “Cola,” from her 2019 debut EP Super Sad Generation, appeared in Michaela Coel’s critically acclaimed HBO series, “I May Destroy You.” Phoebe Bridgers and Florence Welch have shown love, too. Although the influencer generation has shifted the capacity to create stars from institutions to individuals, Parks has taken home a host of industry awards, too, landing a spot on the BBC Music Sound Of 2020 long list, which launched the careers of Michael Kiwanuka, Haim and Sam Smith, and NME’s Essential New Artists For 2020 list.
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Parks has had a meteoric year, but she’s remained undeterred by the pressure; she spent 2020 and early 2021 mostly confined to her childhood bedroom. She’s gained and maintained a fan base via a social media presence as sincere and personal as her songs, emphasizing self-love and openness. Her lyrics tackle big subjects—unrequited love, addiction, mental health struggles, sexuality—and her vocals are tender, unflashy and inviting.
Themes like these are the bedrock of her debut album, Collapsed In Sunbeams, a series of vignettes describing friends and their problems tied together by a calm, wistful energy. (The album’s title is lifted from British author Zadie Smith’s 2005 novel, On Beauty.) Nodding to her influences, like Radiohead and Portishead, Collapsed In Sunbeams easily flits between lo-fi pop, R&B and the indie sounds of her youth. Yet the real beauty is in Parks’ smart observations on life, which she tackles directly yet compassionately.
GRAMMY.com chatted with Arlo Parks about Collapsed In Sunbeams, her literature collection and how her heartfelt lyrics entered Eilish’s imagination.
This interview has been edited and condensed for clarity.
What are you reading at the moment? I learned a new Japanese word recently—tsundoku, or the art of leaving a book unread after buying it. Are you like that?
I’m definitely like that! My favorite thing to do is wander around quaint little book shops in SoHo, like Skoob Books, and buying 10 books at once. I’ve got Shampoo Planet by Douglas Coupland, This Young Monster by Charlie Fox and The Swimming Pool Library by Alan Hollinghurst on my desk, to name a few. There’s something so comforting about books as a little physical world to explore, but making the time to read them is a different story.
Aside from your musical influences, which artistic figures inspire you?
I’m obsessed with sensory, muscular writers like Virginia Woolf, Zadie Smith, and Raymond Carver. Some special books to me are Just Kids by Patti Smith, Chelsea Girls by Eileen Myles and Blueberries by Ellena Savage. I’m also interested in [photographers] that capture youth culture and act like super-observant documentarians, like Wolfgang Tillmans, William Eggleston, and Nan Goldin.
In terms of films, I love Xavier Dolan—especially Mommy—[as well as] Wes Anderson’s catalog, Vertigo by Hitchcock and quiet, sensitive films like In The Mood For Love by Wong Kar-Wai or Driveways by Andrew Ahn.
Can you remember which came first, writing stories or listening to music?
Listening to music came first. I remember sitting on the carpet in the living room and listening to everything from Françoise Hardy to My Funny Valentine by Chet Baker to Zombie by Fela Kuti. Music permeated the house, and the car rides to Sainsbury’s. It’s in all my conscious memory.
You’re a prolific journal writer. Is that where your ideas for songs germinate?
Definitely. This album was inspired by poring over old journals and picking out fragments of conversation, dissecting explosions of emotion and important stories [magnified] by adolescence. Journaling also allows me to have those quiet moments of introspection and makes me a more honest, focused, and experimental writer. Everything I write feeds into my songs.
How did you go about recording Collapsed In Sunbeams?
It was recorded between my bedroom, a few Airbnbs, and two studios. I wrote the demos for “Portra 400” and “Bluish” in my bedroom and recorded the Bluish vocals at 3 a.m. at home. Most of the songs were written and recorded in Airbnbs in East London—Dalston and Hoxton.
It was a very organic and instinctive process. We approached this album on a song-by-song basis to make sure everything felt fresh, and the sonic palette was broad.
Your songs’ emotional maturity is surprising given your age. Have you always been that emotionally in touch?
I’ve always been somebody who felt a lot all the time. That sensitivity and empathy is a big part of who I am, and I’ve always had a sense of self-awareness when it comes to my inner landscape. I learned a lot about emotion and communication just from being around very open people—from helping friends and understanding myself.
You’ve spoken elsewhere about being blessed with a supportive family, who helped with that emotional intelligence. What do they make of your new stardom? And what has it been like living with them while your career has skyrocketed?
They always say how proud they are of me, but there have been adjustments to be made. Being on TV or being recognized in the park, or being in the paper has taken some getting used to. It has felt so grounding to be surrounded by the people who know me and love me best during the chaos of this year, so I’m grateful for that. It’s refreshing to watch some Hitchcock films with my mom or just chat with my brother between interviews. It centers me.
“Black Dog” is particularly devastating, but elsewhere on the album, there’s a more uplifting message. How can we maintain hope during this bleak period?
I think this album is an exercise in balance. Being a human being involves spikes of elation and dejection, and I wanted to explore both sides. Honestly, I would say try and make space for your own joy every day, whether it’s going for a quick walk, getting a posh coffee, having a solo dance party or a bath with candles. Doing little things for yourself consistently and being aware that what is meant for you will not pass you by.
How do you feel about flaunting your influences? I can hear bits of Radiohead and Portishead.
It’s super important to me. I’m a music lover before a music maker, and I love the idea of picking little elements of records I enjoy. Maybe a kick drum from [A Tribe Called Quest’s] The Low End Theory, some guitar reverb from a Beach House song, a melodic approach from [Elliott Smith’s] Either/Or, creating a unique collage.
I like paying homage to and basking in the songs that made me fall in love with music and allow me to fall more deeply in love every day.
Speaking of influences, Billie Eilish says she’s a fan. So is Michaela Coel and Phoebe Bridgers. How do you cope knowing the cool kids are watching?
It’s surreal to know that such powerful, unique human beings are a fan of my work. It’s validating in a specific way because these are people I look up to.
You’re very in touch with your fan base, particularly through your candid social media presence. What’s been the most impactful fan reaction to your work?
I feel connected to my fans, there’s a familial quality to [my] community, and I find that lovely. Someone said that “Eugene” helped them come out to their older sister and feel a sense of comfort in themselves and their sexuality. I also remember someone saying the only way their baby boy would sleep was listening to “Cola”, which I thought was very wholesome.
Your natural lyricism and interest in words of all kinds lend themselves to rap. Can we expect that on future albums, or will you keep it centered around spoken-word for now?
Maybe so. Who knows? I’m a big fan of hip-hop. Artists like Navy Blue, MF Doom, and Earl Sweatshirt are so playful with language. The sky’s the limit, and that’s so exciting to me.
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