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Dear Care and Feeding,
“Tara” was my first girlfriend from eighth grade until we graduated. Her home life was…

Care and Feeding is Slate’s parenting advice column. Have a question for Care and Feeding? Submit it here.
Dear Care and Feeding,
“Tara” was my first girlfriend from eighth grade until we graduated. Her home life was…