Delestre ended up waiting a full month before he took out Cayman for their first jumps together.
“I really took my time to try to understand what he prefers, what he likes, how he feels. You need to give him a lot of time to try to know him as well as you can,” Delestre explained. “It was very difficult to understand what would be best for him, and I spent a lot of time first to imagine what could be better for him, so always I took a lot of time with him.”
The key, as was the case with all the horses in his life, was to be patient and responsive to their needs. In the end, Delestre and Cayman not only formed a sports partnership but a friendship.
“Every day with them, you need to be patient and you need to try to understand them because they cannot talk but they show you what they like and what they don’t like so every day I try to improve what I can understand from them,” Delestre said.
“We take lessons every day from them. What I think the most difficult part is, is to win their confidence and when you have confidence of horses like him, of such a talented horse, then you can do everything because he doesn’t need to learn to jump. He knows. He’s born for that. Jumping is very easy. It’s the rest. I just had to have him as a friend and having a close relation. And when you have this with these kinds of horses, it’s something very special.”
While other riders rode and ultimately left Cayman – including three-time Olympic medallist Steve Guerdat – for Delestre, the struggle to gain Cayman’s trust was well worth it.
“This one is very different than every other horse I’ve already ridden in my life. He’s different on some points, but he also has the best you can get from a horse. He’s courageous, he’s careful, he is full of energy, and he gives all this 100 per cent,” Delestre said.
“He’s sometimes a headache because he’s so active. I always try to do the best for him, but sometimes it’s difficult because he always has a strong reaction to everything around. At home, he’s very normal, but when he arrives at the show, he can be a little bit tense on everything and sometimes you don’t know what or why. Sometimes he’s a little bit surprised and a little thing can make him really, really active. So, I try just to give him confidence and it’s the most important part of my job.”